Find kinky women in San Jose

Fun, flirty, and a little mischievous. I’m here for real chemistry, great conversations, and some unforgettable nights. Confidence, respect, and a good sense of humor are my biggest turn-ons. Let’s keep it light, kinky, and drama-free.
Female (39) San Jose, California
I am very honest and caring woman who is willing to treat my mam like a king and worship his cock day and night... I would love to be with a man who is caring, sincere, good hearted and willing to treat me like queen... a serious sex relationship no cheating.
Female (31) San Jose, California
**Hello New Here 🥰 Important Info** DO NOT immediately message me demanding photos, sex, or my full attention. Have basic manners and introduce yourself. LOCALS ONLY NO CYBER PLAY I'm 5'1, BBW, big titties, a small but nice ass, and a deep throat. I'm an emotional little cancer ♋️ 🦀 I love to test my limits when it comes to how far I can push your buttons before you break me but I also want to be worshiped and tell you what to do. Does that make me a switch? 🤔 I love men but sometimes I get the urge to spit on a man and make them say please before they lick my clit. At the same time if he ***d me and spat back before fucking me silly I'd be so fucking happy. I love anime, music (mostly metal), witch bitch stuff, smoking bowls 420 friendly, taking drives, watching movies (horror and comedy are my fav) and crying lol I'm a crybaby sorry 🤷🏽‍♀️ I love ✨️🍄's I want to go stargazing on shrooms and fuck under the stars. I love to be passenger princess, dress up, play with make up and sew. I have many interests that I'm not going to list but please feel free to ask about anything else. If you made it this far, thank you so much for reading this whole thing. You get priority attention, DM me your favorite part of my bio so I know you read it!
Female (32) San Jose, California
I’m looking for a man who is honest, caring, and shares similar values. Someone I can connect with emotionally, laugh with, and build a long-term relationship. I value trust, communication, and a playful, fun-loving nature in a partner. Life is a journey, and I hope to meet someone to share experiences, create memories, and grow together.
Female (38) San Jose, California
My inner nasty girl has definitely come out and I’m looking for that one guy I can be myself 100% with and finally live out my kinks .
Female (53) San Jose, California
I enjoy this dominant lifestyle and I am willing and ready to pursue this further and having a sissy slave that would want to obey and honor me would make me pleased. I would enjoy a mistress/sissy romantic relationship.
Female (48) San Jose, California
The truth is that life has given me many good and bad experiences, but I am looking for someone who loves me and wants me in his life. I am a faithful, loving, genuine woman looking for a gentleman, so I don't want to waste my time. Do you want to waste yours?
Female (50) San Jose, California
Am Gunther and a widow with one daughter and seeking something serious which could lead both of us to happiness...I am ready for a serious relationship and i will look forward to starting that with the right person
Female (44) San Jose, California
Here for ghits and shiggles. Kinda perusing but I highly doubt anything with catch my interest enough for me to want to stay before I inevitably get creeped out.
Female (18) San Jose, California
hope that I will meet the one and only here. I'm not looking for the best, I'm looking for someone who will accept my sincere feelings and will be able to take care of my heart and will protect my soul. What really matters to me in a man is his self-confidence, honesty and determination.
Female (45) San Jose, California
am a bright and energetic girl who never sits still. My life is filled with movement, always striving for new heights. I am a soft and kind woman, but with great inner strength. I grew up in a family where love, respect and mutual support were the basis of everything. My parents became an example of a strong union, which I dream to build in my life. I see the future in a relationship where harmony reigns and a man takes the main role as a support and leader who can be trusted.
Female (42) San Jose, California
I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
I'm a vibrant, captivating woman who thrives on embracing life's endless possibilities. My beauty radiates from within, complementing my sharp intellect. Exploring the world is my passion, from hidden gems in my own city to far-flung destinations, I crave adventure. I have an insatiable curiosity, always seeking knowledge and growth. Whether it's discussing philosophy, delving into art, or immersing myself in a good book, my mind is a treasure trove of ideas waiting to be explored.
Female (48) San Jose, California
I am a woman in the prime of her life.I am dynamic , active, I always try to go with a positive attitude in life and it is difficult to get me off this path. In general, I consider myself a sincere person, with a good sense of humor and a big heart.
Female (48) San Jose, California
Hello Handsome How are you doing today on here nice meeting you here I am Celina and what about you Dear.. I would love to know more about you and why you came across here♥.. ❣️How are you doing today..? I know you are thinking about who this message is coming from, My name is Celina and I am 47 years of age. I know it's very hard to trust people on the internet these days, especially strangers like me, Believe me, I am not here to hurt people's feelings or anyone Not even you. I am only looking forward to meeting someone new on the internet to get to know better and see what we can share together when we get acquainted... I'm not Perfect but I am very honest, Loyal, understanding, Loving and Respectful that if you give me the chance to get to know you more you will get to know that I am even fun to be with.. I'm looking for Love, something Long term or Friends with Benefits which can lead to something stronger as time goes on.
Female (57) San Jose, California
💋 Sweet in the streets, Secret Slut in the sheets 😏 (💎Read the whole thing for a surprise 😈) Submissive slut who loves flirting and playing with guys online. In a relationship (it’s very don’t ask don’t tell 😉) but I enjoy getting to know other kinky people 😏 📣Currently not looking for any long term playmates- sorry! Open to making new friends these days so still feel free to message me, but not looking for any new committed (even virtual) D/s dynamics 🙂‍↔️ you may see me in the lobby more often so feel free to say hi there too! 🥰 🤭 📣 Open to having more kinky friends and discussing things like turn ons, sharing fantasies, etc- but not currently looking for sexting/additional pic sharing. Some turn ons include restraints, body writing, free use, collars, toys (clit suckers are a fav! especially anything remote controlled 😉), etc. Slowly realizing that I may have a praise kink 🥹🤭 Still interested in hyper femininity (see my 💖Bimbo💖post lol) but not the main thing im currently exploring 💋 I love dominant men ❤️‍🔥 Particularly the “Soft Dom” kind that want to degrade and be filthy when having sex/sexting but are sensual and sweet and are into “taking care of” their subs 🤤 Really uninterested in men who are on the submissive side- sorry! 🙈 If your kink test has a high level of submissiveness I love that for you, but we are unfortunately not a match. Since I am in a relationship, I have to be very discreet about when I can send messages. Not looking for anything beyond casual conversations here in the app for now 💋 Just please know that I receive a lot of messages, so starting out with something more than “Hi” goes a long way 🤭😘 💎T.h.r.o.n.e and R.e.d.d.i.t = u/iSpy_Eye 💎
Female (30) San Jose, California
thickems here horror freak dark humor bratty asf not looking for a hookup no I don’t want to be you’re unicorn. I won’t reply if you don’t have a picture. just trying to live out my dark romance book fantasy’s
Female (29) San Jose, California
X- grownbitter (I answer better there) Ig- 2lit__2quit I have a close friends list on there ;) **Im banned from Snap** *Not looking for subs or doms :)
Female (31) San Jose, California
I’m just seeing what’ll happen. I’m looking for a solid proper male dom, but open to see who else comes my way. IG: charlesbadass add me. ✌️✌️
Female (33) San Jose, California
Here for a good time not a long time 😏…. Don’t be afraid to shoot your shot baby 😏❤️ INTO STRAIGHT MEN ONLY!!!!!!
Female (27) San Jose, California
Little girl who likes to play and wants a Daddy to take care of me. I dabbled a bit into DD/lg awhile ago, and then found myself back at it again recently, going even further. my big roleplay heaven is you teaching me what sex is for the first time. I want a monogamous Daddy, I don’t share well. if you’re good and sweet but stern to me, I promise to be a good little girl. I also age regress so be warned but am always sexual
Female (31) San Jose, California
besides being traumatized and horny I’m a musician and I’m into watching old movies and meeting your cats 🥺 and into rough play depending on the mood as well as bondage. I like *** and/or praise. I love cnc and erotic hypnosis with the right people. I’m into intox, age reg., and/or pet play if you’re down Exclusively submissive, and I do not top. Not looking for a relationship, mostly hookups but I’m open to being friends with or without benefits 🇵🇸
Female (27) San Jose, California
Seeking kinky fun with someone who's dominant/ master, communicative, and respectful of boundaries. I'm a switch, but right now I'm mostly exploring my more submissive side. chubby and soft❤️ $MrWest5419 I like being a bratty slut, but do enjoy being a soft dom at times. I'm also really into being bred/pillow princess. I love using toys! and a bit of (CNC)😈 💦💦I squirt 💦💦if you can play with me right Aftercare is important to me in all forms, lol. I wanna be nasty and dirty together and still told I'm a pretty princess afterwards. I'm hard to tame, but I'm worth the effort.
Female (26) San Jose, California
CNC breeding kink exploring limits being cucked / cucking another person gangbang Looking for someone to talk dirty to, and if you’re in my area, meet up irl.
Female (28) San Jose, California

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hope that I will meet the one and only here. I'm not looking for the best, I'm looking for someone who will accept my sincere feelings and will be able to take care of my heart and will protect my soul. What really matters to me in a man is his self-confidence, honesty and determination.
Female (45) San Jose, California
I am very honest and caring woman who is willing to treat my mam like a king and worship his cock day and night... I would love to be with a man who is caring, sincere, good hearted and willing to treat me like queen... a serious sex relationship no cheating.
Female (31) San Jose, California
**Hello New Here 🥰 Important Info** DO NOT immediately message me demanding photos, sex, or my full attention. Have basic manners and introduce yourself. LOCALS ONLY NO CYBER PLAY I'm 5'1, BBW, big titties, a small but nice ass, and a deep throat. I'm an emotional little cancer ♋️ 🦀 I love to test my limits when it comes to how far I can push your buttons before you break me but I also want to be worshiped and tell you what to do. Does that make me a switch? 🤔 I love men but sometimes I get the urge to spit on a man and make them say please before they lick my clit. At the same time if he ***d me and spat back before fucking me silly I'd be so fucking happy. I love anime, music (mostly metal), witch bitch stuff, smoking bowls 420 friendly, taking drives, watching movies (horror and comedy are my fav) and crying lol I'm a crybaby sorry 🤷🏽‍♀️ I love ✨️🍄's I want to go stargazing on shrooms and fuck under the stars. I love to be passenger princess, dress up, play with make up and sew. I have many interests that I'm not going to list but please feel free to ask about anything else. If you made it this far, thank you so much for reading this whole thing. You get priority attention, DM me your favorite part of my bio so I know you read it!
Female (32) San Jose, California
Fun, flirty, and a little mischievous. I’m here for real chemistry, great conversations, and some unforgettable nights. Confidence, respect, and a good sense of humor are my biggest turn-ons. Let’s keep it light, kinky, and drama-free.
Female (39) San Jose, California
Am Gunther and a widow with one daughter and seeking something serious which could lead both of us to happiness...I am ready for a serious relationship and i will look forward to starting that with the right person
Female (44) San Jose, California
Hello Handsome How are you doing today on here nice meeting you here I am Celina and what about you Dear.. I would love to know more about you and why you came across here♥.. ❣️How are you doing today..? I know you are thinking about who this message is coming from, My name is Celina and I am 47 years of age. I know it's very hard to trust people on the internet these days, especially strangers like me, Believe me, I am not here to hurt people's feelings or anyone Not even you. I am only looking forward to meeting someone new on the internet to get to know better and see what we can share together when we get acquainted... I'm not Perfect but I am very honest, Loyal, understanding, Loving and Respectful that if you give me the chance to get to know you more you will get to know that I am even fun to be with.. I'm looking for Love, something Long term or Friends with Benefits which can lead to something stronger as time goes on.
Female (57) San Jose, California
I’m looking for a man who is honest, caring, and shares similar values. Someone I can connect with emotionally, laugh with, and build a long-term relationship. I value trust, communication, and a playful, fun-loving nature in a partner. Life is a journey, and I hope to meet someone to share experiences, create memories, and grow together.
Female (38) San Jose, California
Here for ghits and shiggles. Kinda perusing but I highly doubt anything with catch my interest enough for me to want to stay before I inevitably get creeped out.
Female (18) San Jose, California
I'm a vibrant, captivating woman who thrives on embracing life's endless possibilities. My beauty radiates from within, complementing my sharp intellect. Exploring the world is my passion, from hidden gems in my own city to far-flung destinations, I crave adventure. I have an insatiable curiosity, always seeking knowledge and growth. Whether it's discussing philosophy, delving into art, or immersing myself in a good book, my mind is a treasure trove of ideas waiting to be explored.
Female (48) San Jose, California
am a bright and energetic girl who never sits still. My life is filled with movement, always striving for new heights. I am a soft and kind woman, but with great inner strength. I grew up in a family where love, respect and mutual support were the basis of everything. My parents became an example of a strong union, which I dream to build in my life. I see the future in a relationship where harmony reigns and a man takes the main role as a support and leader who can be trusted.
Female (42) San Jose, California
The truth is that life has given me many good and bad experiences, but I am looking for someone who loves me and wants me in his life. I am a faithful, loving, genuine woman looking for a gentleman, so I don't want to waste my time. Do you want to waste yours?
Female (50) San Jose, California
I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
I enjoy this dominant lifestyle and I am willing and ready to pursue this further and having a sissy slave that would want to obey and honor me would make me pleased. I would enjoy a mistress/sissy romantic relationship.
Female (48) San Jose, California
I am a woman in the prime of her life.I am dynamic , active, I always try to go with a positive attitude in life and it is difficult to get me off this path. In general, I consider myself a sincere person, with a good sense of humor and a big heart.
Female (48) San Jose, California
My inner nasty girl has definitely come out and I’m looking for that one guy I can be myself 100% with and finally live out my kinks .
Female (53) San Jose, California
besides being traumatized and horny I’m a musician and I’m into watching old movies and meeting your cats 🥺 and into rough play depending on the mood as well as bondage. I like *** and/or praise. I love cnc and erotic hypnosis with the right people. I’m into intox, age reg., and/or pet play if you’re down Exclusively submissive, and I do not top. Not looking for a relationship, mostly hookups but I’m open to being friends with or without benefits 🇵🇸
Female (27) San Jose, California
technically I’m a feedee but I’m also a bbw disabled ebony baddie🤭 I get so many messages on here just add my IG plus the ig has more anyways🙈👇🏽 @sweet_melonns
Female (25) San Jose, California
hi there! I'm new to the BDSM scene looking to explore. feel free to send a message, don't be shy I'm a true switch, so submissive or dominant doesn't matter to me but please be respectful.
Female (20) San Jose, California
Just a girl in her healing era. Tender, terrifying, and feral in equal measure. Candor and emotional fluency are law. Courage and honesty > bravado. Chronic illness, cats, and one extremely judgmental eyebrow. Not rare — just rarely found twice. I’m new to this world, which means I’m learning, listening, and attempting to unapologetically ask questions. Kink, for me, isn’t just about play - it’s about trust, creativity, and surrendering in the right hands. If you’ve got patience, brains, and a little bite... we’ll probably get along.
Female (27) San Jose, California
Newly excepted bi-curious feminine woman looking to explore some fun with like minded women. I’ve been with the same male partner for 20+ years and he is comfortable with my exploration, either with him involved or without. We have lived a kink forward dynamic for most our time together and I see this dynamic in some capacity with a female partner. Outside of sex and kink, I enjoy crafting, riding my bike, learning to play ukulele, and tiki (cocktails, etc).
Female (40) San Jose, California
I’m your unapologetic Dommy Mommy—sensual, strict, and always in control. I thrive on obedience and expect my good boys to show their devotion with both their words and their wallets. If you’re craving structure, guidance, and a place to surrender, you’ve just found it. *** isn’t optional—it’s the first step in proving you’re worthy of my attention. I reward loyalty, consistency, and generosity. I don’t waste time on boys who hesitate. I want a good boy who understands that my pleasure and comfort come first, and that serving me is its own reward. If you’re ready to kneel, ready to spoil, and ready to obey—then come forward. Have your *** ready, and maybe, just maybe, Mommy will let you bask in her approval.
Female (35) San Jose, California
no rizz just brown eyes and a need to yap. I will send anything ridiculous to my best friend because some of yall way to confident.
Female (18) San Jose, California
Here for a good time not a long time 😏…. Don’t be afraid to shoot your shot baby 😏❤️ INTO STRAIGHT MEN ONLY!!!!!!
Female (27) San Jose, California
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Female (27) San Jose, California

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