Find kinky women in San Jose

Fun, flirty, and a little mischievous. I’m here for real chemistry, great conversations, and some unforgettable nights. Confidence, respect, and a good sense of humor are my biggest turn-ons. Let’s keep it light, kinky, and drama-free.
Female (39) San Jose, California
I’m looking for a man who is honest, caring, and shares similar values. Someone I can connect with emotionally, laugh with, and build a long-term relationship. I value trust, communication, and a playful, fun-loving nature in a partner. Life is a journey, and I hope to meet someone to share experiences, create memories, and grow together.
Female (38) San Jose, California
hope that I will meet the one and only here. I'm not looking for the best, I'm looking for someone who will accept my sincere feelings and will be able to take care of my heart and will protect my soul. What really matters to me in a man is his self-confidence, honesty and determination.
Female (45) San Jose, California
Am Gunther and a widow with one daughter and seeking something serious which could lead both of us to happiness...I am ready for a serious relationship and i will look forward to starting that with the right person
Female (45) San Jose, California
I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
Here for ghits and shiggles. Kinda perusing but I highly doubt anything with catch my interest enough for me to want to stay before I inevitably get creeped out.
Female (18) San Jose, California
I am a demisexual woman who is addicted to good coffee, enjoy meaningful connections, humanitarian principles, and basic decency. Satisfied and fully invested in the life and relationships I have right now. Here for friendship, knowledge, events, and community right now. Something to feed the hungry brain. Interested in friendship: people who have interesting things going on, who have a quirky sense of humor, communicate exquisitely, who are grounded in their self-knowledge and accountability, and have done the work or continue to do it. Growth mindset, kindness, and beautiful weirdness.
Female (57) San Jose, California
Here for a good time not a long time 😏…. Don’t be afraid to shoot your shot baby 😏❤️ INTO STRAIGHT MEN ONLY!!!!!!
Female (27) San Jose, California
I'm the unapologetic temptress of tease. I'm soft and fat and I love to get you going because it turns me on. Im not sure im open to meeting yet but I love phone sex but above all, I love saying sexy things to you while I watch you play. Im a latina with a cute big/little booty. I have pretty lips and I know how to use my words. My time is precious so make it count 😈
Female (39) San Jose, California
*NOT a bot nor am I located in Honduras! Do not believe the glitch. 💀 Just a girl in her healing era. Tender, terrifying, and feral in equal measure. Emotionally fluency is hot. Bravado is not. Chronically ill, deeply alive, governed by two cats and one devastatingly judgmental eyebrow. I send music and memes with soul. Not rare - just rarely found twice. Kink, for me, isn’t just about play - it’s about trust, creativity, and surrendering in the right hands. If you’ve got patience, brains, and a little bite... we’ll probably get along.
Female (27) San Jose, California
I’m just seeing what’ll happen. I’m looking for a solid proper male dom, but open to see who else comes my way. IG: *** add me. ✌️✌️
Female (33) San Jose, California
Little girl who likes to play and wants a Daddy to take care of me. I dabbled a bit into DD/lg awhile ago, and then found myself back at it again recently, going even further. my big roleplay heaven is you teaching me what sex is for the first time. I want a monogamous Daddy, I don’t share well. if you’re good and sweet but stern to me, I promise to be a good little girl. I also age regress so be warned but am always sexual
Female (31) San Jose, California
Hii :) I'm usually on here looking for respectful hookups. I am bbw, usually hovering around 300lbs, most of it is ass and tummy. Feel free to reach out!
Female (28) San Jose, California
Im a big girl so don't be surprised! Not sure what im trying to find here, open to everything as long as it doesn't involve some gross shi or talking down to me, I don't like all that.
Female (27) San Jose, California
I'm looking for someone to talk to, share photos/ videos. I love someone who loves feet. I keep my feet cute and clean :)
Female (32) San Jose, California
hiii not intrested in meeting up or anything but just freinds and chatting. looking forward to a woman unicorn 🦄
Female (18) San Jose, California
I’m your unapologetic Dommy Mommy—sensual, strict, and always in control. I thrive on obedience and expect my good boys to show their devotion with both their words and their wallets. If you’re craving structure, guidance, and a place to surrender, you’ve just found it. Tribute isn’t optional—it’s the first step in proving you’re worthy of my attention. I reward loyalty, consistency, and generosity. I don’t waste time on boys who hesitate. I want a good boy who understands that my pleasure and comfort come first, and that serving me is its own reward. If you’re ready to kneel, ready to spoil, and ready to obey—then come forward. Have your tribute ready, and maybe, just maybe, Mommy will let you bask in her approval.
Female (35) San Jose, California
I may not be green, but i'm definitely a wicked witch of the west
Female (54) San Jose, California
Seeking kinky fun with someone who's dominant/ master, communicative, and respectful of boundaries. I'm a switch, but right now I'm mostly exploring my more submissive side. chubby and soft❤️ $MrWest5419 I like being a bratty slut, but do enjoy being a soft dom at times. I'm also really into being bred/pillow princess. I love using toys! and a bit of (CNC)😈 💦💦I squirt 💦💦if you can play with me right Aftercare is important to me in all forms, lol. I wanna be nasty and dirty together and still told I'm a pretty princess afterwards. I'm hard to tame, but I'm worth the effort.
Female (26) San Jose, California
A tiny girl who is spontaneous with full of curiosity, like a kitty cat. I may play shy in the beginning, i just need some time to sniff your face and butt, then I’m good to go 🐈 Talk to me, I won’t bite you.
Female (33) San Jose, California
Newly excepted bi-curious feminine woman looking to explore some fun with like minded women. I’ve been with the same male partner for 20+ years and he is comfortable with my exploration, either with him involved or without. We have lived a kink forward dynamic for most our time together and I see this dynamic in some capacity with a female partner. Outside of sex and kink, I enjoy crafting, riding my bike, learning to play ukulele, and tiki (cocktails, etc).
Female (40) San Jose, California
thickems here horror freak dark humor bratty asf not looking for a hookup no I don’t want to be you’re unicorn. I won’t reply if you don’t have a picture. just trying to live out my dark romance book fantasy’s
Female (30) San Jose, California
🤷‍♀️💅🙏✨️🦵💪🙃😩✨️
Female (27) San Jose, California
besides being traumatized and horny I’m a musician and I’m into watching old movies and meeting your cats 🥺 and into rough play depending on the mood as well as bondage. I like *** and/or praise. I love cnc and erotic hypnosis with the right people. I’m into intox, age reg., and/or pet play if you’re down Exclusively submissive, and I do not top. Not looking for a relationship, mostly hookups but I’m open to being friends with or without benefits 🇵🇸
Female (27) San Jose, California

New members in San Jose

hope that I will meet the one and only here. I'm not looking for the best, I'm looking for someone who will accept my sincere feelings and will be able to take care of my heart and will protect my soul. What really matters to me in a man is his self-confidence, honesty and determination.
Female (45) San Jose, California
Fun, flirty, and a little mischievous. I’m here for real chemistry, great conversations, and some unforgettable nights. Confidence, respect, and a good sense of humor are my biggest turn-ons. Let’s keep it light, kinky, and drama-free.
Female (39) San Jose, California
Am Gunther and a widow with one daughter and seeking something serious which could lead both of us to happiness...I am ready for a serious relationship and i will look forward to starting that with the right person
Female (45) San Jose, California
I’m looking for a man who is honest, caring, and shares similar values. Someone I can connect with emotionally, laugh with, and build a long-term relationship. I value trust, communication, and a playful, fun-loving nature in a partner. Life is a journey, and I hope to meet someone to share experiences, create memories, and grow together.
Female (38) San Jose, California
Here for ghits and shiggles. Kinda perusing but I highly doubt anything with catch my interest enough for me to want to stay before I inevitably get creeped out.
Female (18) San Jose, California
I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
Me and my hubby are new to this we want to explore cuckholding with an experienced man. I love me some chocolate 😉,vanilla over here 👋😮‍💨 we want to have a respectable person who will be easy to get along with I want my hubby to feel comfortable along with myself. if your homophobic or against him watching than it’s a hard no. I want to be pleasure in front of home with his consent. 😮‍💨😉 if your bi even better let’s chat ☺️
Female (36) San Jose, California
I may not be green, but i'm definitely a wicked witch of the west
Female (54) San Jose, California
Hii :) I'm usually on here looking for respectful hookups. I am bbw, usually hovering around 300lbs, most of it is ass and tummy. Feel free to reach out!
Female (28) San Jose, California
Im a big girl so don't be surprised! Not sure what im trying to find here, open to everything as long as it doesn't involve some gross shi or talking down to me, I don't like all that.
Female (27) San Jose, California
besides being traumatized and horny I’m a musician and I’m into watching old movies and meeting your cats 🥺 and into rough play depending on the mood as well as bondage. I like *** and/or praise. I love cnc and erotic hypnosis with the right people. I’m into intox, age reg., and/or pet play if you’re down Exclusively submissive, and I do not top. Not looking for a relationship, mostly hookups but I’m open to being friends with or without benefits 🇵🇸
Female (27) San Jose, California
technically I’m a feedee but I’m also a bbw disabled ebony baddie🤭 I get so many messages on here just add my IG plus the ig has more anyways🙈👇🏽 @sweet_melonns
Female (25) San Jose, California
*NOT a bot nor am I located in Honduras! Do not believe the glitch. 💀 Just a girl in her healing era. Tender, terrifying, and feral in equal measure. Emotionally fluency is hot. Bravado is not. Chronically ill, deeply alive, governed by two cats and one devastatingly judgmental eyebrow. I send music and memes with soul. Not rare - just rarely found twice. Kink, for me, isn’t just about play - it’s about trust, creativity, and surrendering in the right hands. If you’ve got patience, brains, and a little bite... we’ll probably get along.
Female (27) San Jose, California
Newly excepted bi-curious feminine woman looking to explore some fun with like minded women. I’ve been with the same male partner for 20+ years and he is comfortable with my exploration, either with him involved or without. We have lived a kink forward dynamic for most our time together and I see this dynamic in some capacity with a female partner. Outside of sex and kink, I enjoy crafting, riding my bike, learning to play ukulele, and tiki (cocktails, etc).
Female (40) San Jose, California
I’m your unapologetic Dommy Mommy—sensual, strict, and always in control. I thrive on obedience and expect my good boys to show their devotion with both their words and their wallets. If you’re craving structure, guidance, and a place to surrender, you’ve just found it. Tribute isn’t optional—it’s the first step in proving you’re worthy of my attention. I reward loyalty, consistency, and generosity. I don’t waste time on boys who hesitate. I want a good boy who understands that my pleasure and comfort come first, and that serving me is its own reward. If you’re ready to kneel, ready to spoil, and ready to obey—then come forward. Have your tribute ready, and maybe, just maybe, Mommy will let you bask in her approval.
Female (35) San Jose, California
no rizz just brown eyes and a need to yap. I will send anything ridiculous to my best friend because some of yall way to confident.
Female (18) San Jose, California
Here for a good time not a long time 😏…. Don’t be afraid to shoot your shot baby 😏❤️ INTO STRAIGHT MEN ONLY!!!!!!
Female (27) San Jose, California
🤷‍♀️💅🙏✨️🦵💪🙃😩✨️
Female (27) San Jose, California
Curious soul with a wild side. I’m here for real connection, deep kisses, and unforgettable nights! If you’re into chemistry, spontaneity and unapologetic passion. let’s make some trouble worth remembering!
Female (33) San Jose, California
I am a demisexual woman who is addicted to good coffee, enjoy meaningful connections, humanitarian principles, and basic decency. Satisfied and fully invested in the life and relationships I have right now. Here for friendship, knowledge, events, and community right now. Something to feed the hungry brain. Interested in friendship: people who have interesting things going on, who have a quirky sense of humor, communicate exquisitely, who are grounded in their self-knowledge and accountability, and have done the work or continue to do it. Growth mindset, kindness, and beautiful weirdness.
Female (57) San Jose, California
Little girl who likes to play and wants a Daddy to take care of me. I dabbled a bit into DD/lg awhile ago, and then found myself back at it again recently, going even further. my big roleplay heaven is you teaching me what sex is for the first time. I want a monogamous Daddy, I don’t share well. if you’re good and sweet but stern to me, I promise to be a good little girl. I also age regress so be warned but am always sexual
Female (31) San Jose, California
hiii not intrested in meeting up or anything but just freinds and chatting. looking forward to a woman unicorn 🦄
Female (18) San Jose, California
Seeking kinky fun with someone who's dominant/ master, communicative, and respectful of boundaries. I'm a switch, but right now I'm mostly exploring my more submissive side. chubby and soft❤️ $MrWest5419 I like being a bratty slut, but do enjoy being a soft dom at times. I'm also really into being bred/pillow princess. I love using toys! and a bit of (CNC)😈 💦💦I squirt 💦💦if you can play with me right Aftercare is important to me in all forms, lol. I wanna be nasty and dirty together and still told I'm a pretty princess afterwards. I'm hard to tame, but I'm worth the effort.
Female (26) San Jose, California
BBW submissive Latina. I'm very new here but not new to the lifestyle. I'm just seeing what's out there for me. As a sub, I'm looking for a Dom who knows the lifestyle well and holds his title with respect and pride. kinks: praise Kink, choking, gagging, primal play, CNC, TPE Limits: *** play, age play (under 18), ***s, *** play, vomit play.
Female (37) San Jose, California

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