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lovelyruin
lovelyruin
• hyperfeminine pillow princess lesbian • femme4butch • 4'11 but i'm never without heels! princess best describes my d/s role; im a demanding, high maintenance little girl. i love to be pampered and spoiled, punished when I've stepped out of line.
Female (23) San Jose, California
Mistresshailey-9585
Mistresshailey-9585
I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
Deelulu
D*****u
Looking to connect with gorgeous younger men 🤫. That face card needs to have excellent credit. Stimulate my mind before you can stimulate anything else. Just living my best cougar life ✌️Interested in real in-person connections. Not interested in online-only connections. Are you looking for a dom? I can give you a referral to a professional. Just ask.
Female (43) San Jose, California
UncollaredChaos
U*************s
*NOT a bot nor am I located in Honduras! Do not believe the glitch. 💀 Just a girl in her healing era. Tender, terrifying, and feral in equal measure. Emotionally fluency is hot. Bravado is not. Chronically ill, deeply alive, governed by two cats and one devastatingly judgmental eyebrow. I send music and memes with soul. Not rare - just rarely found twice. Kink, for me, isn’t just about play - it’s about trust, creativity, and surrendering in the right hands. If you’ve got patience, brains, and a little bite... we’ll probably get along.
Female (28) San Jose, California
brujayconeja
b**********a
I’d like to meet people ideally close enough to meet up and see if we can have fun together.
Female (30) San Jose, California
DMama25
D*****5
I am a woman that enjoys being craved by someone needing attention. I’m a nurturer with big breasts, so I enjoy a good Mama kink and someone that’s wants to be a good boy for me. On the other hand, I also enjoy a man that doesn’t need my dominance and allows me to get in a more feminine state and submissive place. Where I don’t feel I constantly need to lead and he can allow me to comfortably follow.
Female (36) San Jose, California
LadyGrim
L******m
🤷‍♀️💅🙏✨️🦵💪🙃😩✨️
Female (27) San Jose, California
GhostieTabs
G*********s
I’m a busy woman so make mommy’s time worth it 🥱👻 Your local goth goddess with a size 10 shoe Soft dom who will put you back in place if needed iykyk ~Throne 💜
Female (21) San Jose, California
lumpyhellprincess
l***************s
X - grownbitter Ig- *** I have a close friends list on there ;) Don’t get my hopes up if you’re thousands of miles away😩 **Im banned from Snap** *Not looking for subs or doms :)
Female (32) San Jose, California
DommyMommy420
D***********0
I’m your unapologetic Dommy Mommy—sensual, strict, and always in control. I thrive on obedience and expect my good boys to show their devotion with both their words and their wallets. If you’re craving structure, guidance, and a place to surrender, you’ve just found it. Tribute isn’t optional—it’s the first step in proving you’re worthy of my attention. I reward loyalty, consistency, and generosity. I don’t waste time on boys who hesitate. I want a good boy who understands that my pleasure and comfort come first, and that serving me is its own reward. If you’re ready to kneel, ready to spoil, and ready to obey—then come forward. Have your tribute ready, and maybe, just maybe, Mommy will let you bask in her approval.
Female (35) San Jose, California
bdsmgwenn
b*******n
New to ENM, long term partner and will be playing solo. I’m looking for a soft dom, daddy dom, a gentle dom, someone who wants to praise and encourage me, guide me. Someone who wants to take me out and show me off and then take me home and use me. I need intellectual stimulation also, not just sex. Dating is a must, with nice dinners, cocktails, fun outings, things to keep my mind active. Curious about trying a female dom. As well as two men at once and group play. Described as vivacious and voluptuous. I’m a sucker for musicians, blue or green eyes, tattoos, trimmed beard, and very good banter.
Female (40) San Jose, California
Mona_Mona
M*******a
Only interested in heteroflexible , bi-curious, or bi men. BBW happily married to a gorgeous 6’5” man. We only play together. We both are tested and clean, & want the same.
Female (39) San Jose, California
Charlesbadass
C***********s
I’m just seeing what’ll happen. I’m looking for a solid proper male dom, but open to see who else comes my way. IG: *** add me. ✌️✌️
Female (33) San Jose, California
WorthTheRead
W**********d
Petite, pierced, pejorative prone, inked & will absolutely sing in the car. 🏳️‍⚧️ Protect trans kids. 🇵🇸 Free Palestine. 🖕🧊 I'm happy to disagree on pizza toppings (pineapple does belong, btw). Basic human rights? Not so much. Therapy is preventative & healing. Laugh at yourself. Communicate like an adult. Questions are expected, BS/creative truth telling are not. GenX, AuADHD, Chronic health adventures, en***d rest, family & everything else human that comes with all of it. It can be a lot, don't message if you're not up to it. Love to travel, cuddle on the couch & read or watch something, be near the ocean. It's always a good time for reading, Star Trek, games, or (selected) reality TV 📺 What's one of your favorite reads?
Female (49) San Jose, California
Isa1112
I*****2
A tiny girl who is spontaneous with full of curiosity, like a kitty cat. I may play shy in the beginning, i just need some time to sniff your face and butt, then I’m good to go 🐈 Talk to me, I won’t bite you.
Female (33) San Jose, California
Jadedrecord
J*********d
I'm a chunky, nerdy, spooky, 🍃, very tattooed, metalhead, cat lady blessed with perhaps just a touch of the tism to keep things neurospicy *** but at least you know I'll speak my mind honestly! I'm awkward and introverted until you get to know me….then I'm awkward and introverted but also your pal. Show me your pets, nerds. 💚🖤 Let's go get a tattoo.🤘 📸👻🎶: Jadedrecord
Female (29) San Jose, California
sub_mads
s******s
hi :3 I’m looking to be dominated and degraded by anyone and everyone really! I don’t have any hard limits except age play and heavy gore, other than that im open to pretty much anything.
Female (24) San Jose, California
reno4976
r******6
I've been called a 'MILF' and now 'GILF'😁.. I have 3 grown *** from a previous relationship and have 1 other child from my last relationship. I'm a Mexican American born and raised in L.A but am a CHICANA who is now residing in Reno, Nv. I am still discovering more about myself. In this journey, the world of kinkyness and waiting to meet new friends.
Female (50) San Jose, California
HotLilHoneyBee
H************e
I am 100% submissive, as well as bi-sexual and a unicorn! very open minded in addition to being your lil play thing, that only exists to be pleased and please you! looking for couples in particular , (m-straight f-bi) but open to singles as well! I’ve definitely been a bad bad girl lately, and need to be punished! -Greek✅ -Bondage✅(rope-bunny) -Verbal *** ✅ -Cunnelingus✅ -Role-Play(Daddy-Daughter,etc.)✅ -🚺🚺 Tribbing (my fav)✅
Female (26) San Jose, California
passion-flower
p************r
I am a demisexual woman who is addicted to good coffee, enjoy meaningful connections, humanitarian principles, and basic decency. Satisfied and fully invested in the life and relationships I have right now. Here for friendship, knowledge, events, and community right now. Something to feed the hungry brain. Interested in friendship: people who have interesting things going on, who have a quirky sense of humor, communicate exquisitely, who are grounded in their self-knowledge and accountability, and have done the work or continue to do it. Growth mindset, kindness, and beautiful weirdness.
Female (57) San Jose, California
Helsdaughters
H***********s
I may not be green, but i'm definitely a wicked witch of the west
Female (54) San Jose, California
elcon
e***n
hiii not intrested in meeting up or anything but just freinds and chatting. looking forward to a woman unicorn 🦄
Female (19) San Jose, California
SF-baby
S*****y
Seeking kinky fun with someone who's dominant communicative, and respectful of boundaries. I'm a switch, but right now I'm mostly exploring my more submissive side. chubby and soft❤️ $MrWest5419 I like being a bratty slut, but do enjoy being a soft dom at times. I'm also really into being bred/pillow princess. I love using toys! and a bit of (CNC)😈 💦💦I squirt 💦💦if you can play with me right Aftercare is important to me in all forms, lol. I wanna be nasty and dirty together and still told I'm a pretty princess afterwards. I'm hard to tame, but I'm worth the effort.
Female (26) San Jose, California
Demon3
D****3
Please dont be creepy. also, I am chunky so dont say I didnt warn you.. No, im not just "thick" im more like a Torta 🤷‍♀️ Still cute tho. 😁
Female (27) San Jose, California

New members in San Jose

lovelyruin
lovelyruin
• hyperfeminine pillow princess lesbian • femme4butch • 4'11 but i'm never without heels! princess best describes my d/s role; im a demanding, high maintenance little girl. i love to be pampered and spoiled, punished when I've stepped out of line.
Female (23) San Jose, California
Mistresshailey-9585
Mistresshailey-9585
I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
Deelulu
D*****u
Looking to connect with gorgeous younger men 🤫. That face card needs to have excellent credit. Stimulate my mind before you can stimulate anything else. Just living my best cougar life ✌️Interested in real in-person connections. Not interested in online-only connections. Are you looking for a dom? I can give you a referral to a professional. Just ask.
Female (43) San Jose, California
Jadedrecord
J*********d
I'm a chunky, nerdy, spooky, 🍃, very tattooed, metalhead, cat lady blessed with perhaps just a touch of the tism to keep things neurospicy *** but at least you know I'll speak my mind honestly! I'm awkward and introverted until you get to know me….then I'm awkward and introverted but also your pal. Show me your pets, nerds. 💚🖤 Let's go get a tattoo.🤘 📸👻🎶: Jadedrecord
Female (29) San Jose, California
reno4976
r******6
I've been called a 'MILF' and now 'GILF'😁.. I have 3 grown *** from a previous relationship and have 1 other child from my last relationship. I'm a Mexican American born and raised in L.A but am a CHICANA who is now residing in Reno, Nv. I am still discovering more about myself. In this journey, the world of kinkyness and waiting to meet new friends.
Female (50) San Jose, California
Mona_Mona
M*******a
Only interested in heteroflexible , bi-curious, or bi men. BBW happily married to a gorgeous 6’5” man. We only play together. We both are tested and clean, & want the same.
Female (39) San Jose, California
HotLilHoneyBee
H************e
I am 100% submissive, as well as bi-sexual and a unicorn! very open minded in addition to being your lil play thing, that only exists to be pleased and please you! looking for couples in particular , (m-straight f-bi) but open to singles as well! I’ve definitely been a bad bad girl lately, and need to be punished! -Greek✅ -Bondage✅(rope-bunny) -Verbal *** ✅ -Cunnelingus✅ -Role-Play(Daddy-Daughter,etc.)✅ -🚺🚺 Tribbing (my fav)✅
Female (26) San Jose, California
bunniegirll0808
b*************8
I’m currently in a relationship but my boyfriend isn’t really dominant, he’s more attentive to his homegirls so i really don’t get much attention. I need someone that will be patient with me, dominant but also caring. :) If you just want to talk and be friends I’m also up for that!💗
Female (18) San Jose, California
DMama25
D*****5
I am a woman that enjoys being craved by someone needing attention. I’m a nurturer with big breasts, so I enjoy a good Mama kink and someone that’s wants to be a good boy for me. On the other hand, I also enjoy a man that doesn’t need my dominance and allows me to get in a more feminine state and submissive place. Where I don’t feel I constantly need to lead and he can allow me to comfortably follow.
Female (36) San Jose, California
Demon3
D****3
Please dont be creepy. also, I am chunky so dont say I didnt warn you.. No, im not just "thick" im more like a Torta 🤷‍♀️ Still cute tho. 😁
Female (27) San Jose, California
san-francisco-o82783
s******************3
Me and my hubby are new to this we want to explore cuckholding with an experienced man. I love me some chocolate 😉,vanilla over here 👋😮‍💨 we want to have a respectable person who will be easy to get along with I want my hubby to feel comfortable along with myself. if your homophobic or against him watching than it’s a hard no. I want to be pleasure in front of home with his consent. 😮‍💨😉 if your bi even better let’s chat ☺️
Female (36) San Jose, California
Helsdaughters
H***********s
I may not be green, but i'm definitely a wicked witch of the west
Female (54) San Jose, California
GhostieTabs
G*********s
I’m a busy woman so make mommy’s time worth it 🥱👻 Your local goth goddess with a size 10 shoe Soft dom who will put you back in place if needed iykyk ~Throne 💜
Female (21) San Jose, California
Sweetmelonns
S**********s
technically I’m a feedee but I’m also a bbw disabled ebony baddie🤭 I get so many messages on here just add my IG plus the ig has more anyways🙈👇🏽 @***
Female (25) San Jose, California
FaeMonsterFucker
F**************r
Messing around looking for trouble. I'm a huge nerd, and a total switch. if you play DND, PC games, and are generally a dork, we will get along.
Female (21) San Jose, California
UncollaredChaos
U*************s
*NOT a bot nor am I located in Honduras! Do not believe the glitch. 💀 Just a girl in her healing era. Tender, terrifying, and feral in equal measure. Emotionally fluency is hot. Bravado is not. Chronically ill, deeply alive, governed by two cats and one devastatingly judgmental eyebrow. I send music and memes with soul. Not rare - just rarely found twice. Kink, for me, isn’t just about play - it’s about trust, creativity, and surrendering in the right hands. If you’ve got patience, brains, and a little bite... we’ll probably get along.
Female (28) San Jose, California
bdsmgwenn
b*******n
New to ENM, long term partner and will be playing solo. I’m looking for a soft dom, daddy dom, a gentle dom, someone who wants to praise and encourage me, guide me. Someone who wants to take me out and show me off and then take me home and use me. I need intellectual stimulation also, not just sex. Dating is a must, with nice dinners, cocktails, fun outings, things to keep my mind active. Curious about trying a female dom. As well as two men at once and group play. Described as vivacious and voluptuous. I’m a sucker for musicians, blue or green eyes, tattoos, trimmed beard, and very good banter.
Female (40) San Jose, California
DommyMommy420
D***********0
I’m your unapologetic Dommy Mommy—sensual, strict, and always in control. I thrive on obedience and expect my good boys to show their devotion with both their words and their wallets. If you’re craving structure, guidance, and a place to surrender, you’ve just found it. Tribute isn’t optional—it’s the first step in proving you’re worthy of my attention. I reward loyalty, consistency, and generosity. I don’t waste time on boys who hesitate. I want a good boy who understands that my pleasure and comfort come first, and that serving me is its own reward. If you’re ready to kneel, ready to spoil, and ready to obey—then come forward. Have your tribute ready, and maybe, just maybe, Mommy will let you bask in her approval.
Female (35) San Jose, California
LadyGrim
L******m
🤷‍♀️💅🙏✨️🦵💪🙃😩✨️
Female (27) San Jose, California
lumpyhellprincess
l***************s
X - grownbitter Ig- *** I have a close friends list on there ;) Don’t get my hopes up if you’re thousands of miles away😩 **Im banned from Snap** *Not looking for subs or doms :)
Female (32) San Jose, California
passion-flower
p************r
I am a demisexual woman who is addicted to good coffee, enjoy meaningful connections, humanitarian principles, and basic decency. Satisfied and fully invested in the life and relationships I have right now. Here for friendship, knowledge, events, and community right now. Something to feed the hungry brain. Interested in friendship: people who have interesting things going on, who have a quirky sense of humor, communicate exquisitely, who are grounded in their self-knowledge and accountability, and have done the work or continue to do it. Growth mindset, kindness, and beautiful weirdness.
Female (57) San Jose, California
daddysbby94
d*********4
Daddy/daughter roleplay is what gets me, I’ll be your good princess little girl who likes to play and wants a Daddy to take care of me. I dabbled a bit into DD/lg awhile ago, and then found myself back at it again recently, going even further. my big roleplay heaven is you teaching me what sex is for the first time. I want a monogamous Daddy, I don’t share well. if you’re good and sweet but stern to me, I promise to be a good little girl. I also age regress so be warned but am always sexual
Female (32) San Jose, California
elcon
e***n
hiii not intrested in meeting up or anything but just freinds and chatting. looking forward to a woman unicorn 🦄
Female (19) San Jose, California
SF-baby
S*****y
Seeking kinky fun with someone who's dominant communicative, and respectful of boundaries. I'm a switch, but right now I'm mostly exploring my more submissive side. chubby and soft❤️ $MrWest5419 I like being a bratty slut, but do enjoy being a soft dom at times. I'm also really into being bred/pillow princess. I love using toys! and a bit of (CNC)😈 💦💦I squirt 💦💦if you can play with me right Aftercare is important to me in all forms, lol. I wanna be nasty and dirty together and still told I'm a pretty princess afterwards. I'm hard to tame, but I'm worth the effort.
Female (26) San Jose, California

New personal ads in San Jose

NDEEP
Trying to reconnect with you two.

I met you from here. Went to your house, you helped me when I had tooth ***. You & your roommate both. Hope we can do it M O R E!!!
Contact me. Code word is : what we did first.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 40km around USA Murrieta
SagittariusBeauty
My fertile pussy needs to be bred

I’m so wet and slippery right now all I can think about is being filled til it spills out of me. Anybody want to make a baby with me tonight?
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around USA Philadelphia
MommySage
Sexy fun

My boyfriend wants to pimp me out. Any takers 🤭
Kinky Date ● 18 to 40 years ● 25km around USA Buffalo
rinzie
Message me

Really horny right now looking for some fun message me but if it ain’t big I don’t want it !!!!
Kinky Date ● 18 to 33 years ● 25km around USA Avon
LeahTheSlut
Looking for a gloryhole

If anybody here knows any gloryhole in London or is able to make one, please message me i’ll make it worth your while. I am also into exposing if anyone else would like to help out.
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 105km around UK London
Pookiebooty31
ABDL Caregiver needed😘

I need a new mommy or daddy to play with and change me😋
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Springfield
pokygilf
Looking for some playmates this weekend

Pocatello area couple looking for a female or a couple for this weekend
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 150km around USA Chubbuck
SagittariusBeauty
Put a baby in me😩🤰🏻

Who wants to breed me? Hmu
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 120km around USA Philadelphia
herekittykitty23
Serious D/s Dynamic or Long Term Play?! (SC)

hi! I want to find a male dom or switch looking for a longer term D/s dynamic or a longer term play partner- not into flings / hookups sadlyyyy~~

**in South Carolina or close pls (or willing to travel lol)
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 165km around USA Greenville
elegantbosslady
Highly Erotic Lady

I am an attached sexually dominant lady seeking a submissive alpha male for occasional erotic encounters. Standing at 5'8 with a curvaceous figure, come to bed eyes, long honey hair, and a wickedly creative mind, you will find yourself submitting to my seductive demands.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 60 to 99 years ● 150km around USA Auburn
BrattySwitch96
Dom or switch

Looking for bwc
BDSM Play Partner ● 26 to 45 years ● 25km around USA Tacoma
saint10769
Right now

Umm my pussy dripping 💦
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Saint Petersburg
Serenity717
Who wants to see more of me?

Add my snap genesism0717 make it worth it for me tho read my bio
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA New York
sunnygirl7696
Be our Unicorn?

BBW 32f/35m husky but strong couple looking to add a FEMALE to play with both of us- first time- near Sechelt BC
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Canada Vancouver
midland72575
Im married but looking

Big dick guys
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Midland
CandiCorp
What kinda place is thisss ( Patric voice )

Is there really no kinksters in the murrietta / Temecula area I moved here last December still no action very sad
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Wildomar
cocoalove4u
Any Caregivers🤩

any sugar daddy's/providers in houston? big spenders$$$/$$$$
content meets n wonderful conversation short and long term open to trying new things
give great head and always available
Kinky Date ● 25 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Houston
TheRealDeal69
Snatchesss

I wanna tie someone up and take their soul 🤤
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Chicago
IndianaBunnie
I need some BBC

I need me a very dominant black man to dominate tf out of me but it’s against spoiling me as well
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 49 years ● 25km around USA Indianapolis
Ashhiaa
Female looking for daddy

18+ female who is looking for daddy
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● The Happy Kitten Portal in USA New Orleans
bronx97182
I’m looking for black men with taboo kinks

If you’re a clean black older man in the Bronx ny or don’t mind driving pls hmu. Im struggling to get my black kings.
BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Bronx
chocolatebunni
Looking for a dom in NYC

Looking for a discreet dom. I’m new to this but I love being submissive & pleasing my partner . Open to different things . If the chemistry is right it can be an on going situation .. just here for a good time .
Kinky Date ● 30 to 55 years ● 90km around USA New York
geg5y4b
ADD👻veratuy

Private version loading… you want access? 👀💋
Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Rivers
Len3692
Let’s skip the small talk and dive in. 😉

I’m your late-night tease with a naughty streak. Craving sparks and steamy vibes?
Munch Buddy ● 22 to 78 years ● 415km around USA Russell Springs

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