Find kinky women in San Jose

I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
Fun, flirty, and a little mischievous. I’m here for real chemistry, great conversations, and some unforgettable nights. Confidence, respect, and a good sense of humor are my biggest turn-ons. Let’s keep it light, kinky, and drama-free.
Female (39) San Jose, California
hope that I will meet the one and only here. I'm not looking for the best, I'm looking for someone who will accept my sincere feelings and will be able to take care of my heart and will protect my soul. What really matters to me in a man is his self-confidence, honesty and determination.
Female (45) San Jose, California
I am a woman that enjoys being craved by someone needing attention. I’m a nurturer with big breasts, so I enjoy a good Mama kink and someone that’s wants to be a good boy for me. On the other hand, I also enjoy a man that doesn’t need my dominance and allows me to get in a more feminine state and submissive place. Where I don’t feel I constantly need to lead and he can allow me to comfortably follow.
Female (35) San Jose, California
hi ☺️.. I am fun and full of good energy and positive vibes.. I enjoy going out or staying in.. cooking, sports, NASCAR, Karaoke, having fun.. drinks 🍻.. 420.. exercise.. working.. cars.. looking for a D/s dynamic wit monogamy.. no hook ups or out of towners.. please
Female (49) San Jose, California
I am 100% submissive, as well as bi-sexual and a unicorn! very open minded in addition to being your lil play thing, that only exists to be pleased and please you! looking for couples in particular , (m-straight f-bi) but open to singles as well! I’ve definitely been a bad bad girl lately, and need to be punished! -Greek✅ -Bondage✅(rope-bunny) -Verbal *** ✅ -Cunnelingus✅ -Role-Play(Daddy-Daughter,etc.)✅ -🚺🚺 Tribbing (my fav)✅
Female (26) San Jose, California
X - grownbitter Ig- 2lit__2quit I have a close friends list on there ;) Don’t get my hopes up if you’re thousands of miles away😩 **Im banned from Snap** *Not looking for subs or doms :)
Female (31) San Jose, California
Into Really Chubby Guys, Older Guys & Guys That Have A Nice Asx ®" Throatt Goddess Here Aswell , IF I DONT HAVE AN INTEREST I WONT MEET ***AM-TCDLola
Female (23) San Jose, California
*NOT a bot nor am I located in Honduras! Do not believe the glitch. 💀 Just a girl in her healing era. Tender, terrifying, and feral in equal measure. Emotionally fluency is hot. Bravado is not. Chronically ill, deeply alive, governed by two cats and one devastatingly judgmental eyebrow. I send music and memes with soul. Not rare - just rarely found twice. Kink, for me, isn’t just about play - it’s about trust, creativity, and surrendering in the right hands. If you’ve got patience, brains, and a little bite... we’ll probably get along.
Female (27) San Jose, California
thickems here horror freak dark humor bratty asf not looking for a hookup no I don’t want to be you’re unicorn. I won’t reply if you don’t have a picture. just trying to live out my dark romance book fantasy’s
Female (30) San Jose, California
Only interested in heteroflexible , bi-curious, or bi men. BBW happily married to a gorgeous 6’5” man. We only play together. We both are tested and clean, & want the same.
Female (39) San Jose, California
A tiny girl who is spontaneous with full of curiosity, like a kitty cat. I may play shy in the beginning, i just need some time to sniff your face and butt, then I’m good to go 🐈 Talk to me, I won’t bite you.
Female (33) San Jose, California
I’m your unapologetic Dommy Mommy—sensual, strict, and always in control. I thrive on obedience and expect my good boys to show their devotion with both their words and their wallets. If you’re craving structure, guidance, and a place to surrender, you’ve just found it. Tribute isn’t optional—it’s the first step in proving you’re worthy of my attention. I reward loyalty, consistency, and generosity. I don’t waste time on boys who hesitate. I want a good boy who understands that my pleasure and comfort come first, and that serving me is its own reward. If you’re ready to kneel, ready to spoil, and ready to obey—then come forward. Have your tribute ready, and maybe, just maybe, Mommy will let you bask in her approval.
Female (35) San Jose, California
Please dont be creepy. also, I am chunky so dont say I didnt warn you.. No, im not just "thick" im more like a Torta 🤷‍♀️ Still cute tho. 😁
Female (27) San Jose, California
🤷‍♀️💅🙏✨️🦵💪🙃😩✨️
Female (27) San Jose, California
Here for a good time not a long time 😏…. Don’t be afraid to shoot your shot baby 😏❤️ INTO STRAIGHT MEN ONLY!!!!!!
Female (27) San Jose, California
Daddy/daughter roleplay is what gets me, I’ll be your good princess little girl who likes to play and wants a Daddy to take care of me. I dabbled a bit into DD/lg awhile ago, and then found myself back at it again recently, going even further. my big roleplay heaven is you teaching me what sex is for the first time. I want a monogamous Daddy, I don’t share well. if you’re good and sweet but stern to me, I promise to be a good little girl. I also age regress so be warned but am always sexual
Female (31) San Jose, California
technically I’m a feedee but I’m also a bbw disabled ebony baddie🤭 I get so many messages on here just add my IG plus the ig has more anyways🙈👇🏽 @thesweetmelonns
Female (25) San Jose, California
Couple looking for couple, soft/full swap, exploring. In an open relationship. She is bisexual . We are looking to connect on Fetlife and in person before going to the bedroom. A good connection is a must, possible for LTR play. We enjoy weekend getaways, dinners, drinks. I’m not into texting for a long period of time, we would rather meet. (Not into sexting either). ETHICAL above ALL Looking for a unicorn or a bull. 4way Moresomes swinging being watched
Female (48) San Jose, California
hiii not intrested in meeting up or anything but just freinds and chatting. looking forward to a woman unicorn 🦄
Female (19) San Jose, California
I'm looking for someone to talk to, share photos/ videos. I love someone who loves feet. I keep my feet cute and clean :)
Female (32) San Jose, California
Messing around looking for trouble. I'm a huge nerd, and a total switch. if you play DND, PC games, and are generally a dork, we will get along.
Female (21) San Jose, California
I’m just seeing what’ll happen. I’m looking for a solid proper male dom, but open to see who else comes my way. IG: *** add me. ✌️✌️
Female (33) San Jose, California
Hii :) I'm usually on here looking for respectful hookups. I am bbw, usually hovering around 300lbs, most of it is ass and tummy. Feel free to reach out!
Female (28) San Jose, California

New members in San Jose

hope that I will meet the one and only here. I'm not looking for the best, I'm looking for someone who will accept my sincere feelings and will be able to take care of my heart and will protect my soul. What really matters to me in a man is his self-confidence, honesty and determination.
Female (45) San Jose, California
Fun, flirty, and a little mischievous. I’m here for real chemistry, great conversations, and some unforgettable nights. Confidence, respect, and a good sense of humor are my biggest turn-ons. Let’s keep it light, kinky, and drama-free.
Female (39) San Jose, California
I’m a Domme/Mommy/Mistress/Goddess…. It’s great to see you on here. I am a very strict and dominant Mistress, I am looking for a slave for active participation and meeting a slave to own and use as my property ,heart ,body and soul….Please I’m open to having conversations with people that only aligns with my kinks and fantasies, please read my bio well enough to understand what i want to avoid been spoke to rudely, I’m an independent domme and have full consent to pursue my fantasies… my basic rules are simple AND THIS IS A MUST READ!!! * Don’t address me commonly or with romantic words like hey baby, sweetheart, beautiful… (Learn the right manner of communication) * Don’t send me nudes without my permission!!! * Don’t call without proper consent from me * Don’t ask me for meet ups or one night stands… get yourself an online hooker or prostitute!!! * Be ready to commit and stay dedicated before making your mind up to DM me!!! * I don’t tolerate time wasting!!!
Female (36) San Jose, California
I'm a chunky, nerdy, spooky, 🍃, very tattooed, metalhead, cat lady blessed with perhaps just a touch of the tism to keep things neurospicy *** but at least you know I'll speak my mind honestly! I'm awkward and introverted until you get to know me….then I'm awkward and introverted but also your pal. Show me your pets, nerds. 💚🖤 Let's go get a tattoo.🤘 📸👻🎶: Jadedrecord
Female (29) San Jose, California
Only interested in heteroflexible , bi-curious, or bi men. BBW happily married to a gorgeous 6’5” man. We only play together. We both are tested and clean, & want the same.
Female (39) San Jose, California
I am 100% submissive, as well as bi-sexual and a unicorn! very open minded in addition to being your lil play thing, that only exists to be pleased and please you! looking for couples in particular , (m-straight f-bi) but open to singles as well! I’ve definitely been a bad bad girl lately, and need to be punished! -Greek✅ -Bondage✅(rope-bunny) -Verbal *** ✅ -Cunnelingus✅ -Role-Play(Daddy-Daughter,etc.)✅ -🚺🚺 Tribbing (my fav)✅
Female (26) San Jose, California
I’m currently in a relationship but my boyfriend isn’t really dominant, he’s more attentive to his homegirls so i really don’t get much attention. I need someone that will be patient with me, dominant but also caring. :) If you just want to talk and be friends I’m also up for that!💗
Female (18) San Jose, California
I am a woman that enjoys being craved by someone needing attention. I’m a nurturer with big breasts, so I enjoy a good Mama kink and someone that’s wants to be a good boy for me. On the other hand, I also enjoy a man that doesn’t need my dominance and allows me to get in a more feminine state and submissive place. Where I don’t feel I constantly need to lead and he can allow me to comfortably follow.
Female (35) San Jose, California
Into Really Chubby Guys, Older Guys & Guys That Have A Nice Asx ®" Throatt Goddess Here Aswell , IF I DONT HAVE AN INTEREST I WONT MEET ***AM-TCDLola
Female (23) San Jose, California
Please dont be creepy. also, I am chunky so dont say I didnt warn you.. No, im not just "thick" im more like a Torta 🤷‍♀️ Still cute tho. 😁
Female (27) San Jose, California
Me and my hubby are new to this we want to explore cuckholding with an experienced man. I love me some chocolate 😉,vanilla over here 👋😮‍💨 we want to have a respectable person who will be easy to get along with I want my hubby to feel comfortable along with myself. if your homophobic or against him watching than it’s a hard no. I want to be pleasure in front of home with his consent. 😮‍💨😉 if your bi even better let’s chat ☺️
Female (36) San Jose, California
I may not be green, but i'm definitely a wicked witch of the west
Female (54) San Jose, California
Hii :) I'm usually on here looking for respectful hookups. I am bbw, usually hovering around 300lbs, most of it is ass and tummy. Feel free to reach out!
Female (28) San Jose, California
Im a big girl so don't be surprised! Not sure what im trying to find here, open to everything as long as it doesn't involve some gross shi or talking down to me, I don't like all that.
Female (27) San Jose, California
besides being traumatized and horny I’m a musician and I’m into watching old movies and meeting your cats 🥺 and into rough play depending on the mood as well as bondage. I like *** and/or praise. I love cnc and erotic hypnosis with the right people. I’m into intox, age reg., and/or pet play if you’re down Exclusively submissive, and I do not top. Not looking for a relationship, mostly hookups but I’m open to being friends with or without benefits 🇵🇸
Female (27) San Jose, California
hi ☺️.. I am fun and full of good energy and positive vibes.. I enjoy going out or staying in.. cooking, sports, NASCAR, Karaoke, having fun.. drinks 🍻.. 420.. exercise.. working.. cars.. looking for a D/s dynamic wit monogamy.. no hook ups or out of towners.. please
Female (49) San Jose, California
technically I’m a feedee but I’m also a bbw disabled ebony baddie🤭 I get so many messages on here just add my IG plus the ig has more anyways🙈👇🏽 @thesweetmelonns
Female (25) San Jose, California
Messing around looking for trouble. I'm a huge nerd, and a total switch. if you play DND, PC games, and are generally a dork, we will get along.
Female (21) San Jose, California
*NOT a bot nor am I located in Honduras! Do not believe the glitch. 💀 Just a girl in her healing era. Tender, terrifying, and feral in equal measure. Emotionally fluency is hot. Bravado is not. Chronically ill, deeply alive, governed by two cats and one devastatingly judgmental eyebrow. I send music and memes with soul. Not rare - just rarely found twice. Kink, for me, isn’t just about play - it’s about trust, creativity, and surrendering in the right hands. If you’ve got patience, brains, and a little bite... we’ll probably get along.
Female (27) San Jose, California
Newly excepted bi-curious feminine woman looking to explore some fun with like minded women. I’ve been with the same male partner for 20+ years and he is comfortable with my exploration, either with him involved or without. We have lived a kink forward dynamic for most our time together and I see this dynamic in some capacity with a female partner. Outside of sex and kink, I enjoy crafting, riding my bike, learning to play ukulele, and tiki (cocktails, etc).
Female (40) San Jose, California
I’m your unapologetic Dommy Mommy—sensual, strict, and always in control. I thrive on obedience and expect my good boys to show their devotion with both their words and their wallets. If you’re craving structure, guidance, and a place to surrender, you’ve just found it. Tribute isn’t optional—it’s the first step in proving you’re worthy of my attention. I reward loyalty, consistency, and generosity. I don’t waste time on boys who hesitate. I want a good boy who understands that my pleasure and comfort come first, and that serving me is its own reward. If you’re ready to kneel, ready to spoil, and ready to obey—then come forward. Have your tribute ready, and maybe, just maybe, Mommy will let you bask in her approval.
Female (35) San Jose, California
Here for a good time not a long time 😏…. Don’t be afraid to shoot your shot baby 😏❤️ INTO STRAIGHT MEN ONLY!!!!!!
Female (27) San Jose, California
🤷‍♀️💅🙏✨️🦵💪🙃😩✨️
Female (27) San Jose, California
X - grownbitter Ig- 2lit__2quit I have a close friends list on there ;) Don’t get my hopes up if you’re thousands of miles away😩 **Im banned from Snap** *Not looking for subs or doms :)
Female (31) San Jose, California

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